I was asked my opinion on this video so here goes. Disclaimer - Anything I speak about encompasses consideration of yin and Yang. No situation is one way, EVER! We are at times, deceived by the belief that the way something appears is the only version of the truth. Misconceptions come in many forms but what we perceive will always be our version of the situation. This is why those of us who don’t know everything, continue to learn and grow. It is also why those of us who share our growth, tend to help others grow whether they have the courage to be vulnerable or not. That part.
I see this video and I think to myself how beautiful the 6 month expression is, of their love for each other. I recall the beginning of getting to know someone new, usually being sweet, filled with attentiveness, thoughtfulness, and consideration. We know all too well how that vibe can lose luster. So my prayer for them is that when the trials come, whatever they are, this same 6 month time stamp will remind them of the love they share.
For me, it’s not ‘puppy love’, ‘young love’, or judged love. For me, I don’t know enough about this couple to call it anything. For me, it is what these two feel about each other, that is their good part and that they were gracious enough to allow others to peek into ID their choice. It is how they have chosen to express their love and everyone is different.
For me, it is their love that is their business but someone is watching their love and being inspired by it. Someone needs to see that love is possible.
I mention this often that because people are communicating more by hiding behind computer screens, cell phones, and not actually having conversations; our view of the world is based on presentations of truth.
The unfortunate part is that not everyone is happy for them. Not everyone sees their light and wishes them well. Not everyone is speaking love over their relationship because naysayers come in may forms. We often look at things in one dimension but we are not one dimensional people and neither is love.
God’s promises are the most truth they will ever know in this life so I pray that as beautiful as that ring is, God’s promises will be held much closer. I know there is much scrutiny these days on social media with people who have no clue about who they are, what they feel, and what is really important in life. As the world turns though, I hope for us all the beauty of fresh revelation, the courage to lean into that truth, and grace for those who don’t share our life experiences or journey through love.
I notice that it’s great to see this experience I hope an elder is sharing the lessons with them on the other side of them sharing this video and that they are wise enough to heed the advice given. They don’t have to care what people think but when you share anything, they will need to hold each other’s respect, love, and vulnerability close in order to keep it, because envy and jealousy is a thing that comes for everyone at some point in life.
I encourage those watching and waiting for love not to compare yourself. Be careful getting all wrapped up in someone else’s fairytale. We all have our own lives to live. I wish them well. I wish them more and more of whatever God’s plan is for them because there is a plan for us all.
I wish them joy and peace as much inside of each other’s arms as outside. I wish them the courage to talk about the things that set their soul on fire and the willingness to go after it. I wish them the discipline to seek Gods face so that if purpose does not find them together, they can withstand the journey.
I wish them the purpose of togetherness and the resilience to allow their love to be more valuable to them than any challenge they face.
I wish for them the thing we all desire in love - known and unknown - true, authentic, unmasked, balanced, resilient love.
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I see this video and I think to myself how beautiful the 6 month expression is, of their love for each other. I recall the beginning of getting to know someone new, usually being sweet, filled with attentiveness, thoughtfulness, and consideration. We know all too well how that vibe can lose luster. So my prayer for them is that when the trials come, whatever they are, this same 6 month time stamp will remind them of the love they share.
For me, it’s not ‘puppy love’, ‘young love’, or judged love. For me, I don’t know enough about this couple to call it anything. For me, it is what these two feel about each other, that is their good part and that they were gracious enough to allow others to peek into ID their choice. It is how they have chosen to express their love and everyone is different.
For me, it is their love that is their business but someone is watching their love and being inspired by it. Someone needs to see that love is possible.
I mention this often that because people are communicating more by hiding behind computer screens, cell phones, and not actually having conversations; our view of the world is based on presentations of truth.
The unfortunate part is that not everyone is happy for them. Not everyone sees their light and wishes them well. Not everyone is speaking love over their relationship because naysayers come in may forms. We often look at things in one dimension but we are not one dimensional people and neither is love.
God’s promises are the most truth they will ever know in this life so I pray that as beautiful as that ring is, God’s promises will be held much closer. I know there is much scrutiny these days on social media with people who have no clue about who they are, what they feel, and what is really important in life. As the world turns though, I hope for us all the beauty of fresh revelation, the courage to lean into that truth, and grace for those who don’t share our life experiences or journey through love.
I notice that it’s great to see this experience I hope an elder is sharing the lessons with them on the other side of them sharing this video and that they are wise enough to heed the advice given. They don’t have to care what people think but when you share anything, they will need to hold each other’s respect, love, and vulnerability close in order to keep it, because envy and jealousy is a thing that comes for everyone at some point in life.
I encourage those watching and waiting for love not to compare yourself. Be careful getting all wrapped up in someone else’s fairytale. We all have our own lives to live. I wish them well. I wish them more and more of whatever God’s plan is for them because there is a plan for us all.
I wish them joy and peace as much inside of each other’s arms as outside. I wish them the courage to talk about the things that set their soul on fire and the willingness to go after it. I wish them the discipline to seek Gods face so that if purpose does not find them together, they can withstand the journey.
I wish them the purpose of togetherness and the resilience to allow their love to be more valuable to them than any challenge they face.
I wish for them the thing we all desire in love - known and unknown - true, authentic, unmasked, balanced, resilient love.
#Checkoutmylastblog #checkoutspeakresilience #speakresilience #toseimaj #toseimajtv #caibusinessgroup #caiconsulting #caipromo
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