Lets dive in: If you work in selfishness (the me, myself, & I syndrome), you tend to do things that help no one but yourself...feeding your own desire (whether known or unknown) to inflate pride, take credit for all the work, give someone all the credit for your demise, and rest in the random, extensive hand of an intertwined plan, bound in bondage. We can do things by ourselves and for ourselves and still operate in purpose but when you find yourself in one downward spiral after another, its time to dig deeper. Having to keep making the same apology? Dig deeper. Finding yourself in the same broken cycles of redemption? Dig deeper. Always sad, gloom and doomed? Dig deeper. If you fail to plan, you plan to fail because there is always something working on your demise, whether 'us' optimist will ever offer leaverage to that reality or not. We are all like sitting ducks for that which devours, when there is no plan. Every choice matters, whether people see them or not therefore, why not plan to be better, then work your plan? I mean, if you think about it, everyone has a need right? What does it look like when we place our needs above purpose? I would say, bondage. We find ourselves heartbroken when we need a spouse more than we need God's purpose for His chosen spouse for us. We find ourselves feeling failed, destitute and unworthy when we don't seek purpose for healthy boundaries and logical ways to interact with pain. Hurting people hurt people so if you are not finding healthy ways to unload your pain. . .the overflow is designed to inevitably fall on someone else. We find ourselves in a revolving door of sexual relationships when the girlfriend/boyfriend thing has no context. We find ourselves confused when we do not seek God concerning His will for His wiring of us. For some people who do not believe in God, maybe there is some windblowing affect or common law perspective in which to reach the goal of purpose and if you have found it I say, great! My choice is to prefer being led by the one who created life and so far, it has offered results beyond all that I can ask for or think; so I just roll with that. Every area of life requires a plan - wives, mothers, husbands, fathers, boyfriends, girlfriends, family, friends, managers, etc. It doesn't even matter if you have never been in the role, if you plan to be there, I would encourage a plan for the process to see a worthwhile outcome, while you're there. If the addition of something or some role in life catches you by surprise, its time to plan the outcome of each day going forward, in order to reach your goals for your life, according to purpose. Just because you plan doesn't mean things won't go wrong, it just means that when you have a plan to win, the likelihood of it actually happening, is greater! Purpose or Bondage? For me - in joy, happiness or even in agonizing, heart-wrenching pain, when there is barely breathe left inside of me, no thirst for human consolidation; I will choose purpose. Will you? I hope so because life is too short to limbo through, waiting for success, twiddling thumbs on luck. Having faith with no action is just a glorified attempt in babysitting an unproductive thought. May your day be filled with plans that come from the one who created you, the only one who knows enough of your purpose to reveal it to you. May you find peace in working your faith and positively impacting those within your reach. You are overwhelmingly loved, prayed for, and sought after by someone. . .I promise. #SpeakRes
If you work on being in purpose, you tend to do things in a way which honors your reason for existing. This is just my theory and I thank you in advance for humoring me with a few moments of attention.
Lets dive in: If you work in selfishness (the me, myself, & I syndrome), you tend to do things that help no one but yourself...feeding your own desire (whether known or unknown) to inflate pride, take credit for all the work, give someone all the credit for your demise, and rest in the random, extensive hand of an intertwined plan, bound in bondage. We can do things by ourselves and for ourselves and still operate in purpose but when you find yourself in one downward spiral after another, its time to dig deeper. Having to keep making the same apology? Dig deeper. Finding yourself in the same broken cycles of redemption? Dig deeper. Always sad, gloom and doomed? Dig deeper. If you fail to plan, you plan to fail because there is always something working on your demise, whether 'us' optimist will ever offer leaverage to that reality or not. We are all like sitting ducks for that which devours, when there is no plan. Every choice matters, whether people see them or not therefore, why not plan to be better, then work your plan? I mean, if you think about it, everyone has a need right? What does it look like when we place our needs above purpose? I would say, bondage. We find ourselves heartbroken when we need a spouse more than we need God's purpose for His chosen spouse for us. We find ourselves feeling failed, destitute and unworthy when we don't seek purpose for healthy boundaries and logical ways to interact with pain. Hurting people hurt people so if you are not finding healthy ways to unload your pain. . .the overflow is designed to inevitably fall on someone else. We find ourselves in a revolving door of sexual relationships when the girlfriend/boyfriend thing has no context. We find ourselves confused when we do not seek God concerning His will for His wiring of us. For some people who do not believe in God, maybe there is some windblowing affect or common law perspective in which to reach the goal of purpose and if you have found it I say, great! My choice is to prefer being led by the one who created life and so far, it has offered results beyond all that I can ask for or think; so I just roll with that. Every area of life requires a plan - wives, mothers, husbands, fathers, boyfriends, girlfriends, family, friends, managers, etc. It doesn't even matter if you have never been in the role, if you plan to be there, I would encourage a plan for the process to see a worthwhile outcome, while you're there. If the addition of something or some role in life catches you by surprise, its time to plan the outcome of each day going forward, in order to reach your goals for your life, according to purpose. Just because you plan doesn't mean things won't go wrong, it just means that when you have a plan to win, the likelihood of it actually happening, is greater! Purpose or Bondage? For me - in joy, happiness or even in agonizing, heart-wrenching pain, when there is barely breathe left inside of me, no thirst for human consolidation; I will choose purpose. Will you? I hope so because life is too short to limbo through, waiting for success, twiddling thumbs on luck. Having faith with no action is just a glorified attempt in babysitting an unproductive thought. May your day be filled with plans that come from the one who created you, the only one who knows enough of your purpose to reveal it to you. May you find peace in working your faith and positively impacting those within your reach. You are overwhelmingly loved, prayed for, and sought after by someone. . .I promise. #SpeakRes
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